Colleen HooverRomance · Fiction·b. 1979
All Your Perfects
Synopsis
Quinn and Graham fell in love under improbable circumstances and married believing love was enough to sustain them. Years later, the marriage is breaking under the weight of infertility — repeated losses, failed treatments, and the quiet mutual withdrawal that happens when two people grieve in incompatible ways and can no longer reach each other.
Told in alternating timelines that place the falling-in-love past alongside the breaking-apart present, All Your Perfects asks whether a love that was real can survive not getting the life it was promised. A number-one New York Times bestseller, it is the third novel in the Hopeless series and stands alone for readers unfamiliar with the earlier books.
How it reads
Prose complexity 4/10
Spice level
3.0 avg spice
Content warnings (2)
Pregnancy LossSelf Harm
Readers say (1)Moderate · Dense · Emotional · Sad · Hopeful · Dual Timeline
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- 🎧︎All You Perfects by Colleen Hoover narrated by Madeleine Maby delivered an emotional story that explored the complexities of infertility, depression and its effects on a marriage. I went into the story expecting all the feels and it did not disappoint. Picking up this book requires one to have a box of tissues at hand as one journeys with Quinn and Graham through the difficulties of their relationship. Quinn and Graham have been married for seven years. Once upon a time, they had the type of relationship everyone envied. Friends, lovers and soulmate riding a season of highs. What more could they desire? However, as with everything in life, a season of lows will most definitely follow a season of highs. Now, after almost seven years together, Graham and Quinn both face a devastating season of lows. Think category five hurricane. They go through the motions, bottle up their feelings, and pretend all is well. When in reality, their marriage has hit a rough patch. Will they be able to reignite the spark that once burned so bright or is their once perfect love doomed for all time? Some people think the focus in a marriage should be put on the perfect days. They love as much and as hard as they can when everything is going right. But if a person gives all of themselves in the good times, hoping the bad times never come, there may not be enough resources or energy left to withstand those category 5 moments.’ 🎧︎All Your Perfects hit me hard. I believe if I read this book at the time of its release, it would not have had the same effect. Has one half of a married couple I related to the Quinn and Graham’s struggles. Marriage is hard and this story aptly demonstrated this fact. For marriage to work, both parties have to be willing to make it work. Quinn gave up, but Graham held on for fear of losing the most important person in his world. “What's the secret to a perfect marriage?' The old man leaned forward and looked at me very seriously. 'Our marriage hasn't been perfect. No marriage is perfect. There were times when she gave up on us. There were even more times when I gave up on us. The secret to our longevity is that we never gave up at the same time.” The story moved between the past and the present. The chapters set in the past were amazing. Graham and Quinn’s love story warmed my heart. They may have met under unconventional circumstances, but one could not deny the genuineness of their feelings for each other. The chapters in the present gutted me to core. Pain and tension flowed from these chapters. These moments revealed how they have forgotten the promises made in the past. People are led to believe that a marriage ends only when the love has been lost. When anger replaces happiness. When contempt replaces bliss. But Graham and I aren’t angry at each other. We’re just not the same people we used to be. Graham was awesome. Far from perfect, but here we have a guy who deeply loves his wife and would do anything to make her happy. I understood Quinn’s struggles, but she rubbed me the wrong way with her attitude towards Graham. My biggest issue with this couple was their refusal to communicate with each other. But in reality, this is an issue with most relationships. Hoover did a great job in demonstrating the adverse effect their failure to communicate had on their marriage. Thank goodness for their contingency plan, which, although it came into effect before planned date, provided the catalyst to preserving what they held dear for the past seven years. The story hidden in the pages of this book was beautiful, raw, real, and inspiring. It’s a story about falling in love, staying in love and fighting to keep the spark alive. Life can be funny. One moment it has us on a high and the next it drops us to our lowest point. However, how we handle these low points within our relationships will determine its longevity. 🎧︎All Your Perfects highlight the importance of honesty, trust, and communication within our relationships. Narration This is my first time listening to the narrator. Maby’s voice was pleasant, which made listening easy. However, the emotional experiences of the characters were absent from her tone.This review was originally posted on Totally Addicted to Reading
- It’s not very often a book makes me cry. But this one broke my heart. Multiple times. Then gave me the ending I was hoping for, and made me cry again. Super glad my husband was asleep while I was reading. He would have definitely laughed. This book has become my favorite of CoHos. It made me question my own self as far as my marriage, and made me understand that I can do better. This book, like all of her others, was real. I loved it. Edit to address some reviews about their lack of communication and how they could have fixed it all with a talk. Guys. It isn’t that easy. It really isn’t. I have endometriosis like the girl in the book. Yes, I was able to conceive without trying. But I had multiple losses before my firstborn and another before my daughter. Anything related to infertility/loss is a hard subject for those who are going through it to talk about. It’s devastating. It’s hard. It consumes us in ways that you absolutely do not understand and should not voice your opinion on unless you’ve been through it. I’m not saying your opinion can be different if you have been through it. But not all of us handle it the same. My last loss was especially hard. It nearly tore my relationship apart. We all cope differently. Some of us (me included) don’t cope at all until we are forced to. Even if it’s talking to our spouse, it’s not as easy as everyone thinks it is. Just saying.








