Matt HaigLiterary Fiction · Fiction·b. 1975
Reasons To Stay Alive
Synopsis
At twenty-four, Matt Haig's life fell apart. Gripped by severe depression and anxiety, he stood on a cliff's edge and could see no way to keep living. Reasons to Stay Alive is his honest, moving account of that crisis and the long, non-linear climb out of it — how he survived, how he slowly learned to live again, and what helped along the way.
Moving between his younger self in the depths of illness and his present self looking back, Haig writes plainly about what depression and panic actually feel like from the inside, the clumsiness and stigma that surround mental illness, and the small, ordinary things — love, books, walking, time — that gradually became lifelines. He is careful never to promise easy answers, but insistent on one point: that even the oldest cliché is true, and there is light at the end of the tunnel.
A number-one bestseller that has resonated with millions of readers, Haig's memoir is a warm, clear-eyed companion for anyone living with depression or anxiety, or trying to understand a loved one who is.
How it reads
- I just finished reading Reasons to Stay Alive by Matt Haig. I must say, I quickly went through this one. Matt is very articulate. The writing is very raw and real. Plus, the writing style is very accessible (far from all the medical terminology and psycho babble that go over most people's heads). I loved the short paragraphs that made te book a real page turner. At times, it even gets under your skin and make you actually LIVE depression. I must say though: I am a very biased reader, and the topic is very much dear to my heart. In fact, I was actually scared of being triggered as I read Haig's account of his journey. Fortunately, besides a few tears I unwillingly shed here and there, I safely got to shore. Now, on another note: even though I kept nodding in approval across the book, the latter did fail to actually dig as deep as I wanted it to. My point is that, Reasons to Stay Alive is an excellent thought provoker/ conversation starter, whose sole purpose is to generate talk about mental health. It doesn't go much beyond that and I got less out of than I had hoped. Don't get me wrong, each experience is valid and worth sharing. The author did it brilliantly with an unwavering honesty. The book is nevertheless more suitable for those who are starting to dabble in the issue. In my personal opinion, someone who isn't living IT would benefit way more than someone with depression or anxiety disorder. That being said, this book is a must read to all of the cynics out there. To all the care givers to someone with a mental disorder. To all the curious souls seeking understanding. To all those who think being depressed is being a bit sad. To all those who think anxiety is in one's head. To all those who tell sufferers to suck it up and be "happy". To all those who think depression is but dark days and sobbing messes.. To all the Humans.
- I wish I could give this book as a gift to people around me who still can't get the hang of how depression works. As someone with bipolar disorder I found a lot of things I related to. At least when it comes to half of my mental illness. The book is so easy to read, no complicated medical terms, it's not a cold book full of scientific facts, instead the facts are scattered inside a heartwarming story. A brilliant book that was tainted for me because of the last optimistic part and since I'm in a dark phase and have a high aversion for hope, it felt like it was oppressing me to be optimistic. But in happier days this would have been perfect.
- The book explores depression in its different stages: from feeling it as a teenager-because we all know that depression is a snowball that grows up with every negative thought/ experience- into “healing” from it. I think that every person that dealt or is dealing with depression will recognize himself in almost every line of this book. However, the ones who didn't, will fully understand what depression is about from the perspective of a depressive person. I gave this book a five stars because I felt that it was real, all of it.
- An accurate take on the experience of depression and things that actually help.